My signature Pathway to Passion method helps take you from low or no desire to feeling connected to your sexual energy and passionate again. My work focuses on a holistic approach to intimacy that will allow you to feel closer to your partner(s) again.
I especially love working with folks who are on a journey to find their authentic sexuality and sexual expression.
I personally identify as kinky. About half my caseload is queer and I work with sex worker clients and partners in various stages of exploring ENM dynamics. I also work almost entirely with neurodivergent clients. Don't worry, I can keep up with your non-linear ways ; )
I'm licensed as a psychotherapist in Illinois and practice as an intimacy coach with clients all over the country. As a coach, I do not diagnose anything, provide medically necessary treatment or work with insurance. Sessions and packages can be customized to your goals, schedule and budget.
I'm trained in Gottman Couples Counseling, Internal Family System and mindfulness. I am a Certified Holistic Health Coach and authorized as a Meditation Guide. I host a top 1% podcast call Ask A Sex Therapist. Check it out to get a better sense of my personality and approach. People typically tell me I'm genuine and make sex rather approachable. My sex therapy supervisor told me my superpower was helping people get rid of shame and stigma around sexuality.
I'd love to help you have the sex life you truly want! The next step is to reach out and book a free intimacy breakthrough call via my website.
Heather has been a counselor for 18 years and in private practice for 13 years. During that time she has coached and counseled clients for over 10,000 hours!
Heather's expertise has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women's Health, Glamour and SELF magazines and she has appeared on podcasts like Shameless Sex and The Horny Housewife.
Heather is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois, a Certified Holistic Health Coach, a Shambhala Meditation Guide and holds a Certificate in Sexual Health from the University of Michigan in both Sex Therapy & Sex Education. Heather has also trained in attachment theory and completed Levels 1 & 2 of Gottman Couples Counseling training. Heather is a sexpert for the Peanut app, which supports 2.5M+ woman at all stages of life.
Heather works with both individuals and partnerships (couples, V's, thruples, polycules and more!) on:
- helping women tap into desire
- helping women learn to orgasm or orgasm more often
- increasing pleasure and presence during sex
- exploring gender identity
- exploring sexual orientation
- finding the optimal level of monogamy or non-monogamy
- understanding kinks and sexual fantasies
- mastering communication skills & reducing conflict escalation and fights
- building secure attachment
- banishing dating anxiety
- rekindling desire between you and your partner
- desire discrepancy
- kink discrepancy
- discrepancy related to level of mongamy or non-monogamy
- erectile dysfunction
- cultural differences between partners
Intimacy Coaching is available regardless of where you live. Heather also has a sex educator/coaching intern on staff who offers lower fee coaching services supervised by Heather.
Visit Heather's website below to schedule your FREE consultation today!