Welcome!
Life is full of surprises, wonders, and challenges. Sometimes we manage well with them, and sometimes we realize that we can't go on alone. My passion lies in accompanying people on their journey to regain their agency, explore new paths, and emerge strengthened from crises, standstills, or challenging situations.
Systemic kink counseling is intended for individuals, couples, and people in other relationship constellations who need support with one or more issues. I help you or both of you overcome individual challenges in the realms of BDSM, fetish, polyamory, or other facets of the kink context. Whether you are deeply rooted in this world or just beginning your exploration, my focus is to provide you with a safe space where you can authentically discuss your needs and desires. It doesn't matter if you're just starting to explore your inclinations or if you're in an established relationship and seeking new ways of communication—my counseling is designed to support you in your personal journey and find solutions to your individual concerns together.
In counseling, we can not only openly discuss kink-related topics but also create space for everyday conflicts:
Why am I so jealous? My partner doesn't seem to see me at all. Where has our passion gone—we weren't like this before? Does any of this even make sense anymore? How can I express my desires in my relationship? Will my environment accept me if I come out as kinky? Will I ever find a relationship that fulfills me? Is what I'm doing here normal? How can we deal with one of us being unfaithful?
In relationships, whether from the kink scene or not, similar issues often arise. The difference in my counseling: You don't have to justify your lifestyle or sexuality here, and I look forward to you and your uniqueness. You can find a selection of other possible topics or questions here.
Feel free to contact me to learn more about my counseling or to schedule an appointment directly.
If you want to learn more about my background story and systemic counseling in general, I invite you to browse my website for a bit.
I look forward to hearing from you and discussing everything further in an initial conversation.
Languages Englisch and German!