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Affirming Matters LLC – Online Therapy
Name of Primary Practitioner
River Tu
Business Excerpt
I believe the professional relationship we form together is the building block for the connection that is needed to change, grow, and evolve. My role as a therapist is to set up a safe and affirming space for you to tell your story and for you to explore ways to unlock your hidden gems.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor, Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, EMDR Trained
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
469.278.6426
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Texas 75243
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Card, Insurance Reimbursement, Reduced Rates
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Affirming Therapy Center by Jennifer Rehor, LMFT, CST
Name of Primary Practitioner
Group
Business Excerpt
At Affirming Therapy Center, we support and encourage your desire for growth in a completely non-judgmental way, in a space that acknowledges your unique personhood and distinct challenges.

You are welcomed and celebrated here.

Helping you in understanding, accepting, and embracing your own beliefs, identities, and lifestyles is cornerstone in providing the support and encouragement you need to grow, to bring clarity to your choices, and to enhance your life and relationships. We focus on making you feel safe to explore your feelings and to express yourself.

We proudly serve communities of Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity!
Business Phone Number
(619) 246-5342
Business Contact Email
Business Address
3914 Murphy Canyon Road Suite A201
California 92123
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
The owner of ATC is a sexology researcher and author about kink -- See Women and Kink: Relationships, Reasons, and Stories.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
All Things Autie
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Minna Abassi
Business Excerpt
An #ActuallyAutistic coach and consultant. Helping autistic and ADHD adults create sustainable and authentic lives through neurodiversity-affirming life coaching. Guiding businesses (and beyond) towards greater understanding and inclusivity by sharing the autistic lived-experience from an I/O Psychology lens.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
MA Industrial and Organizational Psychology, Certified ADA Coordinator
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
Business Address
California 91321
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo, Paypal, Square
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am actively apart of the kink and poly communities.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Allison Marx, LMFT, ATR
Name of Primary Practitioner
Allison Marx
Business Excerpt
Sex-positive & kink-friendly therapy for poly/ethically non-monogamous, queer, trans, & non-binary people, and anyone who is curious about themselves
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
424.470.1878
Business Contact Email
Business Address
24520 Hawthorne Blvd Suite 210
Torrance, CA 90505
California 90505
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I accept payment via cash, check, and most major credit cards. I can provide a monthly super bill that you can submit for reimbursement from your insurance provider if you have out-of-network therapy benefits.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Amie McNamara, M.S., LPC, LCDC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Amie McNamara
Business Excerpt
Amie (she/her) is a sex-positive and trauma-informed therapist in Dallas, Texas, specializing in queer identities; kink dynamics; consensual non-monogamy; and sex work. She is passionate about reducing shame and stigma in these communities and providing support to all sexual minorities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Master's of Science in Counseling
Business Phone Number
214.727.1152
Business Contact Email
Business Address
5055 W. Park Blvd, Suite 400
Plano, Texas 75093
Texas 75093
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I do not accept insurance, but I will happily provide the information necessary for you to submit for out-of-network benefits.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Innerlight Counselling and Amour Partagé
Name of Primary Practitioner
Dr. T. S. Michaels
Business Excerpt
Amour Partagé is a unique, sophisticated and intense training style for those interested in the Domination and submissision lifestyle as well as BDSM as a whole. AP holds a rich history in its foundation, teachings and structure that will help each person embrace their role in a much deeper way, as well as, building a stronger foundation within themselves.Amour Partagé is different in its approach than mainstream styles of alternative lifestyle training. Please review the Introduction page to learn more. Amour Partagé is not for everyone and each person interested in becoming a student must pass through two vetting stages. The first is an introduction class which covers all of Amour Partagé's history and training options. It will also help you define what role fits you as a person and determine whether Amour Partagé can help you meet your lifestyle goals.

Please note that the original Amour Partagé website is now located at www.bdsmtraining.org
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
PhD, LPsy, LST, LMFT, LCP
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
765-205-6630
Business Contact Email
Business Tags
Business Address
Indiana 47906
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, Card, PayPal, CashApp, Bank Transfer
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Over 30 years in lifestyle
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Arielle Saracinello
Business Excerpt
Click here if you are seeking therapy and identify as: neurodivergent, LGBTQ+, kinky, or poly! I accept all clients but have a special focus on these groups.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Master Social Worker
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Michigan 49503
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Self pay: intake session is $110, therapy sessions are $90.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Austin Inclusive Counseling, PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Crystal Frederick, MA, LPC
Business Excerpt
Crystal works from an attachment based, trauma informed, and relational perspective and specialized in working with Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diverse (GSRD) individuals and couples.

Crystal’s passion is helping people who feel like they are in transition in their life; whether healing from past trauma, navigating relationship changes, or exploring lifestyle issues related to being part of LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and/or kink communities. She has worked extensively with people exploring gender and sexual identities by offering radical acceptance, infinite curiosity, and deep compassion to those seeking to discover their authentic life. She also has significant experience working with sexual assault and domestic violence survivors by supporting their healing process and working through shame to find empowerment.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
EMDR Trained
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
512-294-8752
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Telehealth only at this time
Texas 78745
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit card
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Trainings have included Polyamory, Consenual Non-monogamy, Kink/BDsM, Non-binary, and Sexual Anxiety
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Kez Mayers, MA, LMHCA, NCC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kez Mayers, MA, LMHCA, NCC
Business Excerpt
Integrate the mind and body, and rediscover your sexual self. I empower clients to rebuild sexual confidence and create tools for success.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Gonzaga University - Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
509-844-9336
Business Contact Email
Business Address
1616 W Wellesley Ave, Suite B
Spokane, WA 99205
Washington 99205
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, Check, Credit, Debit
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
"K"
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Caoimhea Keivah
Business Excerpt
Spiritual Advisor, Life Coach, Health and Wellness, Educator, and Ambassador: Offering Diversified & Inclusion Services.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
18575762674
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Global Online
00000
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
paypal.me/Caoimheak
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
over 25 years
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Claudia Six PhD
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Claudia Six
Business Excerpt
Together we'll figure out who you truly are as an erotic being, and how to fit that into your life in a way that works. Let's set you up for success and authenticity.
Education/Training/Certifications
MA, PhD, Board certified by American Board of Sexology
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(415)453-6218
Business Contact Email
Business Tags
Business Address
California 94901
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
CC
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Constellations of Connection
Name of Primary Practitioner
Lauren Tejeda
Business Excerpt
Sex therapy and couple/relationship counseling in Broomfield, Colorado–serving Denver and Boulder. I am committed to providing an environment of safety, trust, and non-judgment so that issues around sexual abuse/trauma, compulsive/out of control sexual behavior, gender identity, sexuality, and intimacy can be explored with openness, compassion, and acceptance.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
MA: Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Sensorimotor Psychotherapy. Sex Therapy Certificate: In process. Gottman Relationship Counseling.
Business Phone Number
720-213-6445
Business Contact Email
Business Address
2095 West 6th Avenue #204
Broomfield, CO 80020
Colorado 80220
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Debit/Credit Card
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Personal identity & experience for 15+ years
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Sarah Levinson
Business Excerpt
Counseling on consensual non-monogamy, sexuality, lgbtq+, communication, and intimacy. Creative Relating also focuses on mood related challenges, including anxiety and depression.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
LMSW, Esq, Human Awareness Institute, Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
646-844-4421
Business Contact Email
Business Address
18 E 16th St suite 503 office 13
New York 10003
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Accept cash, paypal, venmo, credit/debit, and personal check
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am poly and I specialize in opening up a relationship, solo poly, poly and children, relationship anarchy, and consent.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Devyn Stone, Affirming Matters LLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Devyn Stone
Business Category
Business Excerpt
Affirming Matters is a private practice offering counseling and coaching services. Devyn Stone is our resident kink educator and alternative lifestyles coach.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Certified Professional Life, Relationship, Self Awareness, and Emotional Intelligence Coach
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
469-625-6309
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Colorado 80917
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit/Debit Card, PayPal, CashApp, Venmo, Reduced Rates
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Dr. Ryan G. Witherspoon- Clinical Psychologist
Name of Primary Practitioner
Ryan G. Witherspoon, Ph.D.
Business Excerpt
I am a clinical psychologist in CA (PSY32022) who provides kink-affirming (and polyamory/open-affirming) therapy to adults and relationships. I specialize in kink and non-monogamy, mood and anxiety issues, relationship problems, and complex or attachment trauma, using a caring, in-depth approach.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Psychologist (CA PSY32022), Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, MA in Clinical Psychology, MA in Psychology, Two-year post-doctoral training in psychoanalytic psychotherapy
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
626-559-0939
Business Contact Email
Business Address
California 91104
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes, Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I accept cash, check, credit/debit cards, and most HSA cards. I offer a limited number of sliding-scale (low fee) slots depending on availability.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a nationally-recognized expert in kink and consensual non-monogamy, as well as an active researcher, author, and clinical trainer in the field.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Emily Piellusch
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Emily Piellusch
Business Excerpt
I provide trauma-informed care to address a range of concerns, including anxiety, neurodivergence, self-esteem, body image, addictions, and challenges with boundaries and codependency. I specialize in working with teen and adult survivors of sexual abuse and relational violence, HSPs, and members of ENM, kink/BDSM, LGBTQ+, and sex work communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
LLMSW
Business Phone Number
(734) 290-0192
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Ypsilanti, Michigan
All therapy sessions online.
Michigan 48197
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Aetna, BlueCross and BlueShield, McLaren, Molina Healthcare, Priority Health, Private Pay
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Equinox Sex and Relationship Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kristyn Wolf, MSEd, LPCC-S, CCTP, CSITP
Business Excerpt
Specializing with individuals, couples, and non-monogamous relationships. Allied with the LGBTQ, kink, and neurodivergent communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP)
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
330.398.9878
Business Contact Email
Business Tags
Business Address
Telehealth (Ohio) and In-Person (4800 Market St. Unit C, Youngstown, OH 44512)
Ohio 44512
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Insurance: Aetna Anthem BlueCross and BlueShield Caresource Centivo Cigna FSA, HSA, HRA Humana Medicare Advantage Medical Mutual Medicare Optum VA Oscar Oxford United Healthcare/Optum *Please note I am not able to accept Medicaid and Tricare at this time.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
F/R Consulting LLC
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Group
Business Excerpt
Boutique marketing firm focused on increasing your sales and membership numbers. Personable, professional and definitely open-minded.
Education/Training/Certifications
We have over 30+ years in IT, marketing and process optimization training and certifications. If interested, please contact us for a full list. Thank you!
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(469) 430-8874
Business Contact Email
Business Address
Plano, TX
Texas 75023
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo and Zelle payments preferred. Paypal, cash and check payments also accepted.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Not only are we open-minded, we live the lifestyle.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
Have wifi, will travel. We can work with organizations both in the US and worldwide
Gary D. Alexander
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Gary D. Alexander, MS, MFT, CADC III
Business Excerpt
Working with individual, couples, and poly-families since 2002. Specializing in the Kink, Lifestyle, Poly-Family, and LGBTQAI Communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.S. Counseling, PhD (abd) Depth Psychology, National Certified Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor, Level II Complex Trauma Practitioner, AAMFT Approved Supervisor for student and Intern counselors.
Business Phone Number
(360) 836-4298
Business Contact Email
Business Address
6523 California Ave SW #132
Washington 98136
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I can bill most other insurances for out-of-network benefits. Please check with your plan first.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a Kink Knowledgeable professional as well as Kink community member.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
photo of ren lee, a chinese american therapist with light skin, dark hair, with glasses. they are wearing a button up and are in front of a bright window and green plants
Name of Primary Practitioner
Ren Lee, LCSW
Business Excerpt
Ren Lee, LCSW (they/them) specializes in working with the LGBTQIA+ community and BIPOC around issues of race, gender, sexuality, neurodivergence, grief and loss, trauma, life transitions, relationships, polyamory, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, and other alternative lifestyles. They believe in community care, liberation, growth, joy, healing, and justice.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
LCSW
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
929-314-3693
Business Contact Email
Business Address
New York 10001
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Out of network only. Reduced rate/sliding scale available. Superbills provided.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware